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Getting Your Ducks in a Row: Marriage, Protection, and Love without Regret in Virginia

By Siobhan Magee

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Magee, Siobhan. 2025. “Getting Your Ducks in a Row: Marriage, Protection, and Love without Regret in Virginia.” Cultural Anthropology 40, no. 2: 301–27. https://doi.org/10.14506/ca40.2.05.

Abstract

Marriage, as a topic of ethnographic and historical exploration, ties together kinship, politics, economics, and faith in complex and significant ways. In the United States, federal and state governments have used legal marriage to create insiders and outsiders along lines of “race,” sexuality, and religion. Those who have not been allowed to marry a consenting partner of their choice have been cast as dangerous, and as threats to the nation. Drawing on fieldwork in the Virginia city of Charlottesville, I argue that protection is a key idiom through which to understand marriage and kinship in the United States. The research took place at the time of the 2017 white nationalist attack on Charlottesville, and discussions of marriage and kinship resonated with wider political questions about what it means to be safe, and how kinship often means loving against and caring against—protecting against—dangers that threaten those closest to us.

Keywords

USA; kinship; marriage; Virginia; protection

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